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#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

“I actually have emails from my ex that state he was going to make sure my children, grandchildren and everyone else hates me. He stated, I should do everyone a favor and die as I am trash. He threatened – he should have done it a long time ago. This was the last time I saw or spoke to my children. The court refused the emails as evidence and said I need to learn to parent. I have been parenting for 20yrs and dealing with the abuse and torture of the court.”

Unstoppable Mothers © 2017

 

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Merry Christmas to The Quintessential Hero- The Protective Mother

Of all the rights of woman, the greatest is to be a mother― Lin Yutang

As we once again face the holidays, many protective mothers are without their precious children. The pain of having to live a life under these circumstances is unbearable.

We know because we also live it.

In times like this our grief and loss is felt three fold. Once for ourselves, once for our children and once for all the other protective mothers and children who one day found themselves in a nightmarish club of mothers in which they never wanted a membership- the Protective Mother.

In times like this we wish we could reach through our computers and give you a big warm nurturing hug. We wish we had a magic wand to wave and bring your children back. We wish we could erase the memory of the trauma and pain for both you and your children, heal you and make you whole and happy again.

If we could speak to your estranged child we would let them know how very special their mother is.

How she fought for you when she had nothing left in her to fight. How she spent years, and in some cases, decades putting her life on hold sacrificing her happiness, health and finances just to protect you from control, and abuse while keeping you safe in her arms.

Day after day dealing with attorneys, who betrayed and demeaned her, while quickly and greedily devouring her finances. Appearing in court before Judges who bullied and controlled her. Attending endless meetings with Evaluators, Therapists and Guardian Ad Litems who make her jump through impossible, and inhumane high hoops that your other parent was not forced to jump through.

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Did she jump? Oh yes. Over and over and over again your protective mother twisted herself up, denied her pain , took the torture and abuse with a quiet smile on her face and a small exasperated sigh.

Lied on repeatedly , humiliated and abused your mother soldiered on, just for you- for the unstoppable, unconditional love your protective mother has for you runs deeper than anything you can ever imagine.

Isn’t this what heroes do? Heroes absorb the pain take the abuse and live the sacrifice, for the greater good. In this case , the greater good was protecting you.

We would tell these children that their mother is not just any mother, she is not just a single mother. Your mother is all that, yet so much more. Your Protective Mother is a beautiful light in this dark world, she is a warrior for truth and justice, she is an angel of love.

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Yes, the greatest right for a woman is to be a mother, but for women who had this right unjustly stripped from them due to corruption, misogyny, ignorance, and greed, they had to claw , dig and sustain the deepest of wounds that may never heal from their nobel fight.Your Protective Mother was fueled by the fire of her deep love for you burning in her heart and soul. Your Protective Mother attempted to regain this right so both of you can be happy together, loving each other in peace and free from all forms of control and abuse. Your Protective Mother is not just any mother, she is a super mother -the quintessential hero.

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For all the Protective Mothers this Holiday who are without their precious children, PMA International wants you to know- you have our love, respect, support and understanding – always. Here’s to a better New Year.
The PMA International Team

Family Courts Are Killing The Mother/Child Bond

NPD Father ( Image and Quote)

 

#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

“I had a Psychologist testify that my children were severely emotionally abused by their NPD Father. The Judge awarded full custody to the NPD Father. I as the Protective Parent receive 1 hour dinners once a week. I only pray the NPD mask falls off and my children can see the truth before it is too late.”

Unstoppable Mothers © 2017

 

Judge Orders Bottle Feeding For My Infant ( Photography and Quote)

 

 

#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

“The judge ordered that I purchase a pump so that my ex could bottle feed when he had his visits with my infant son.
It says in the basic statute that accommodations should be made for a breast feeding baby.
The judge took that right away from my son.
And his dad didn’t have to pay a penny to purchase the pump!
Completely 100% for “daddy’s rights” and nothing in the best interest of my son.”

Unstoppable Mothers © 2017

 

Abuser Quote: “This Is War, I Will Destroy You…”

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#3 Abuser Quotes 

This is war, I will destroy you!

You can’t win because you’re too naive“.

 

I had no idea what he was saying at the the time….

I do now!

He was right….

 

By S.F. © 2017 (Unstoppable Mothers)

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I Lost Custody of My Children to an Abusive Narcissist (Photography & Quote)

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#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

 

“Over several years of divorce proceedings

and numerous custody battles,

the judge consistently ruled

against all my petitions.

I eventually lost custody

of all my children,

to an abusive narcissist

resulting in severe,

permanent parent alienation.”

 

Unstoppable Mothers © 2016

 

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Court Ordered to Stop Breastfeeding Baby (Photography and Quote)

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#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

“I had always followed court orders to the letter,
the father had not.

Nonetheless, the judge said that
if he perceived that I
was not enthusiastic
about carrying out the order,
and if the baby did not show
love and attachment to the father,
he would take her away from me entirely.

And he ordered me to stop breastfeeding her.”

Unstoppable Mothers © 2016

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I Live in Fear Every Day (Photography & Quote)

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#1 The most outrageous action a judge took in your family court case

“My child’s father planned and tried to murder me.
He was charged with attempted murder,
but got away with it because
he completely lied
and said it was self-defense.

I have to send my child
3-4 times a week
to see the man
who nearly murdered me…
while I live in fear every day
that he will try again.”

Unstoppable Mothers © 2016

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We Cannot Decorate Our X-Mas Tree Together ( Photography and Quote)

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#2 What hurts you the most about not being in your child’s life

“It hurts me the most that we cannot decorate our x-mas tree together. I cannot make you hot chocolate, help you bake cookies for Santa or see your excitement as you try to go to sleep on x-mas eve and wake up at 4 AM with anticipation and innocent joy, as you rush downstairs to presents left under the tree. I AM YOUR MOTHER. Why does any Judge feel they have the right to take away a child’s mother!?”

 

Unstoppable Mothers © 2015

 

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